Have you ever met someone kind, steady, and genuinely available… and felt nothing?

Or maybe they were warm and consistent, and your first thought was:
“Where’s the spark?”

This comes up so often in my work. I can’t tell you how many people have said to me some version of:

“I want something healthy… but I don’t seem to meet people like that when I’m dating, or if I do, I’m not attracted to them.”