When it helps to
have someone there

Sometimes you just need to have a conversation to know if it’s a good fit.

Find out how I can help support you and your attachment system through coaching.

Initial consultation 

  • 20 minute phone call

  • Identify relationship problems and goals

  • Discuss how I can help you

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Please tell me how I can best help you.

More information about the types of sessions available if we work together:

  • Change is possible.

    Get one-on-one coaching with my personalized process which combines the best aspects of attachment re-patterning and brain rewiring, while incorporating visualization, felt-sense awareness, communication tools, and other methods to support you in your journey toward secure attachment and relationship happiness.

    A consult is required prior to coaching.

    One-on-one coaching

    • Dynamic attachment re-patterning

    • Subconscious rewiring

    • Guided visualizations and corrective experiences to wire in calm, safety, and love

    • Coaching on communication, body language, and other resources as needed

    • Zoom sessions from the comfort of your home

    $170/session
    Packages available

  • We can make profound changes much more quickly by aligning the conscious and subconscious so they are in harmony. To describe a few situations where there isn’t harmony —

    • A person wants a secure loving relationship but picks partners who are unavailable.

    • A person wants relationship harmony but picks a fight as soon as their partner walks in the door.

    Subconscious Rewiring sessions can be helpful for managing triggers and creating new ways of responding to situations. It can help us to become more of who we want to be in our relationships, both with others and with ourselves.

    $170/session
    Packages available

  • Life and relationships can be stressful. But we don’t have to carry that stress in our minds and bodies — we can learn to release what is not serving us.

    The Havening Techniques® are powerful tools that can help us let go of stressful feelings around events in our lives. These healing methods are a type of psychosensory method based in neuroscience and designed to alter the way we think and feel about problems.

    In these sessions you learn tools to quickly shift your emotions and amplify positive emotions, build resiliency, and teach the brain what you’d like to focus on — so you can spend less time ruminating and more time enjoying life. We can also use these sessions to rewire our brains for how we want to show up in a given situation or in relationships.

    Some examples of what this session could be useful for:

    • Managing triggers

    • Getting over a breakup

    • Difficult feelings around how much time we spend with someone else

    • Anticipating a future difficult relational situation

    • Stressful feelings when navigating a relationship with opposing attachment styles such as avoidant and anxious attachment

    • Feeling dissatisfied about some aspect of how we interact with people

    • And much, much more.

    $150/session
    Packages available

About my process:

I use rewiring techniques, like visualization and working with the subconscious, as well as somatic attachment re-patterning to help people feel more security, love, and deep connection in their relationships. 

I’m a relational coach and somatic attachment practitioner, with certifications and certificates in Havening Techniques®, Clinical Hypnotherapy, Generative Trance, and Dynamic Attachment Re-patterning. I’ve been passionate about helping people with insecure attachment styles since 2016 to break old patterns of relating that no longer serve them and welcome in secure, passionate and fulfilling love. 

Using guided relaxation, felt-sense awareness, and visualization, I help you get grounded and develop inner resources for navigating life and relationships.

In our sessions we’ll get clear on what you’re feeling and needing in your relationships, identify any old patterns you’ve been stuck in, and then we’ll work together to dissolve subconscious blocks that are holding you back from more fulfilling, empowered relationships. 

You might call it a blend of relational attachment, neuroplasticity, brain rewiring, visualization, compassionate communication, feelings and needs awareness, mindful breath, felt-sense awareness, and a practice in self-love.

“I feel much more secure with myself and in my relationships.” - S.S.

“Kayli gave me many tools to help maintain my calmness and objectivity in very stressful situations. I feel as though I am now better equipped to handle highly emotionally charged situations with composure.” -E.L.

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